Thursday, November 05, 2009

inevitable changes....

Before writing this post...  I was actually reading some of my favorite blogs.
I was laughing for sometime... after that I have realized that I haven't been in touch with some of my friends.
Hold on... I wasn't in touch with them.. I am confused now... let me explain...

Friends who really love you and care more about you, never think twice whether he/she is busy... just one sentence is enough to talk with them... a simple "hi" is also good enough to convey hell lot of things...
I am glad I got few such friends... I have a huge gtalk list where most of them are online.. but very few ping me... initially I used to bug people when a group of friends or colleagues you can say separated from the parent company. But when you dont get the same kind of response you expect... you lose the enthu to talk to them again....thats what happened!!!!
 I guess people's priorities change once they move to another place... make new friends and actually forget some of them... Indifferent attitude is one which no would want to get used to...
Life can be compared to a bus... you stop at every stage... few people get into it...and few people get down...those who remain till the end are your real friends.
I dont know who said this statement... but its 100% correct.
Those who decide to move away were/are never really your friends(can i still use that word??) I want to accept the fact and move on... and this is one inevitable change(for good i guess).

4 comments:

Smita said...

Sometimes it is very difficult to understand the most simplest relationship i.e. friendship. In times like this stop thinking too much & stop trying...if the friendship matters for the other person also he/ she will come back :)

Just be happy dear :)

And ignore G Talk list...we don't know half the ppl there so we shudn't expect anything from therm!!!

indianhomemaker said...

There have been times when I have totally lost touch with friends - for ten years once, seven with another friend- and then she found my cell phone number through some common contact and we are best of friends the way we always were, I know she can call me or even come over (she's in a different city)and stay with us, I can do the same. And if either of us have genuine problems we can convey that also, neither will mind.

I feel if we are basically sure of a person than none of staying in touch etc. will bother us, but if we are not too sure, then even little things will leave us uncomfortable.

sweelie said...

@smita... very true. I will just wait :)

@IM... hmm... most of the time our expectations from our friends doesnt match with what they are and what they do sometimes. And that definitely leaves us uncomfortable.
And I totally agree with the first part when our frens are far apart and got different responsibilities.

vimmuuu said...

Life moves on and so do friends ! Though they are miles apart, I am sure my friends would be there for me when I need them :D